LZ10

Tried out my new toy today... it is great so far...
I have to try out the night mode soon...
Thank you :-)

Headache

Got back to SGP last night; and woke up to a major headache this morning.
Not sure why but it has got me lazy, so I am not going to office. Excuse? nah..
I didn't have headache when I'm in Sydney... what happen?

Oh, I just surf the net and read an online article that says - Nearly 70% of all married men and 60% of married women have had affairs. That’s two out of every three marriages.
Where does this number come from? I don’t know but it is a shocking number,

Ok, how do you define affair? Also, Emotional Infidelity is Cheating? What's your say?

Some people that I know seen to be involved in affair.. (of course, there are some rare gems too)
Cheaters include:
People who are attached, yet are seeing more than one partner?
People who are married but claim to be “available”? Is that considering as an affair too?
People who are married and have kids AND…and portrait as a happy family….
People who are married and have kids; but claim that there’s no love or spark in the relationship
People who are single but involve with married people.

I think there is no right or wrong; no one is allowing to judge on that. But seriously, if it is avoidable, better avoid; especially when there are kids involved.

In current era, affair does not usually start with Men; Women cheats too.
I feel women usually cheat for emotional reason. But other fact can be loneliness? Bad communication or disappointment with their man? Lack of romance?
As a woman, I think it is tougher for women to cheat with stranger; usually is with one that they know. Mmm… maybe that is why some men target at married women?
Oh, I am not speaking from experience since I am single…....so no cheating for me “yet” (not before as well). Hahahaa…

And why men cheat? Don’t know

Proof that you need is...

Mistake is proof that you are trying.

Good food...

Work for the past week has been really busy but I find it challenging and fun.
For once, I really enjoy the work. Maybe there's a bit of workaholic in me; but that complete me afterall... :-)
Spent the Saturday night in the German place - good food and beer. yummy
This is my life where work like crazy during the weekdays and relax all I want during the weekend.
Counting down to go back to SGP.
It's the Halloween time again... what should I dress up as? Suggestion?

Questions

So what do you really value in life?
What do you really value about yourself?
And what do you really value in others?

Freedom or security?
Compassion or intelligence?
Honesty or a sense of humor?

But what I wish now... is the extreme hot spicy chicken wing..
You can get these from the ..... oops forget the name again.

Life with you

If life is predictable, I guess it will be boring; and then where will be the fun and happiness.
No doubt that life can be filled with sadness and anger. But should we live with it?
I have been told that I am soft - my excuse and explanation for myself is because I really hate to fight. I dislike fighting and quarreling. Seen and been through enough to make me sick.
When do I really fight? When it involves hurting my love ones and people that I care, else I will bear with it. Does it make me happy about not fighting? Nope, not all the time... but fighting will make me feel worse.

I do believe I deserve better (and you as well), but I start to realize that I am actually happy with what I got. Still,
I can improve it
I can make it better
I can survive through
I can care. You know that don't you?
Lastly, I can look forward - looking forward for the pretty ladies and princess's visit....(YES!!)

This is the kite that open the gate to my tears....



Oh Oh, a couple of days ago; a male co-worker walked into the ladies toilet with me. I believe (or make myself to believe) that it was an unintentional act. But... still feel weird about having a male following me into the toilet, thinking ladies is the "exit". What's the heck!

Lantern

It's very tiring to lose myself constantly.
Feeling like a sponge now. Started very light... but as it get soak with water, it got heavier.... eventually, when it can't hold any more water; those water become excess and be baggage...

A co-worker lend me a book " Confucius from the Heart".
It contents quite a few philosophical thingy and whether do I agree with all?
Nah, but some yes.

One that I particular like is...
"Since it is impossible to avoid regrets in our lives, the attitude we adopt towards these regrets is extremely important. A different attitude can result in a completely different quality of life."

In oz:

Help is important to giver and taker

When is an important moment?
-> when one ask for help.
Who is important in your life?
-> the one that is who ask for help.
When is the right time?
-> now. the moment the one ask for help.

Sound logical? maybe..