Contolling partner.

I realized woman really like to control men or is it men who loves being control by women? Which is your case or preference?
A few examples:
1. I was having dinner with an ex-colleague and the wife called every 30min. I think she is very concern and worried about the hubby. Loving?
2. This morning, I went buying breakfast; and there was a couple is in front of me. The wife ordered her share 1st, followed by the husband… Very interesting “sight” and learning. I seriously think the wife is trying to be “nice” by asking the hubby what he wants. However, every single dish he picked; the wife will “Are you sure you want that, how about this instead”. I can’t help it but keep laughing. For goodness, why ask him when you already decided and intend to over rule his decision. Still, they are married so I guess that is the way they show love to each other.
3. I was in town recently; and saw a numerous of well-dressed and manly guys sling on their partner’s tiny handbags. PLEASE… how heavy can the tiny bag be? To show off that you care about the girls? A well dress man with a sissy bag. Gosh!!!

Nevertheless, I still admire guys that open the door for ladies… Ok, you might think that the door might not be heavy but there are some, which ARE heavy. I encountered a few occasion where I have problem pulling the door yet that “nerd” just stand there. Arghh….