Friday, April 3, 2009

Thief in toilet?

Today, I was at IMM....err... and I saw an interesting warning label in the ladies toilet (yes, inside the cubicle).
How can one steals from the next cubicle? How skillful is the thief? wow....



This "little sign" triggers me to think... how bad does it feel when one betrays you? When one breaks your trust? Also, how will the betrayer feels?

Some may say - depend how bad the "betray" is ....
To me? A betray is a betray... the victim is likely to feel bad/sad for forever/long time. While, the betrayer will feel guilty. So why make things so difficult?

Some may say - a betray to you might not mean the same to others. I guess it depend on the moral value of that person's mind.

How does one defines the moral of human being? How you tell the difference between right and wrong?
To me? You just know it. Guilt is there when you betray... no matter what. Just that some people can live with the guilt while some cannot. Some will try to redeem via doing good deeds... Also, sadness is there when you have been betray (especially by someone that you trust)... and the recovery is not any easy at all.

My thought is that being able to acknowledge the guilt, apologize for the action and learn from it; are very important. The "victim" will have to acknowlegdt the betray, standup and move on.
What are your thoughts?

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